Agree on a few ways to keep in touch that fit both schedules. You do not have to use every idea below. Try one or two, then talk about what you want to keep doing.
1. Put a call on the calendar
Choose a time in both time zones. If either schedule changes, agree on how you will rearrange it.
2. Send a letter
Write about something you would normally tell them in person. Include a date so the letter makes sense when it arrives.
3. Share a photo from your day
Send a photo of a meal, a walk or something that made you laugh. Add a sentence explaining what they are looking at.
4. Watch the same film
Choose the film and a start time beforehand. Leave time afterward to talk about it.
5. Cook the same meal
Choose a recipe both of you can get ingredients for. Set up the call before starting, or compare the finished plates.
6. Play a game
Pick a game that works on both devices. Check whether either person needs an account before your planned time.
7. Send a small gift
Choose something tied to an interest or a shared memory. For Hug This Pillow Until You Can Hug Me, measure the recipient’s pillow and choose the matching cover size.
8. Plan a visit together
Compare dates, travel costs and where you will stay before booking. Decide who is handling each reservation.
9. Say how you prefer to communicate
Talk about calls, messages and time alone. A late reply can have many explanations; ask rather than treating it as a test.
10. Make a shared list
Keep a short list of things you want to do on the next visit. Add practical plans as well as outings.
11. Check in about the arrangement
Talk about what is working and what you want to change. If moving closer is part of your plan, discuss the steps and constraints together.
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